part of it is my fault…

well, it’s official folks.  part of it is my fault.  remember those posts where i talked about “where are all the men?” well, i think i am part of the problem.  when i got back from colorado, somebody said to me, “well, it sounds like you were different in colorado.”  i didn’t quite see what he was talking about….yet.  then, i got this email from a friend… Read your blog and saw what you were up to – love it!  Actually,... Read More

delight and comfort…

so, i mentioned in my last post that i have been to 2 weddings in the last month.  if i am honest, i have been IN over 20 weddings (hold the “27 dresses” jokes please…)  i think i could add “professional bridesmaid” to my resume… these last 2 weddings were precious to me.  these are two women who have waited for a man who truly matches them in heart and soul.  due to distance, i had not been able to meet these amazing men until the weekends... Read More

men, motorcycles and swing dancing…

this past weekend, i flew to colorado for two reasons.  a precious friends’ wedding and to watch my talented housemate play in aspen.  i knew the weekend was going to be fun.  i love my friend who got married and am so thankful that she found a man who is so perfect for her.  it’s actually the 2nd wedding to which i have traveled in the past month.  that is the next post…so stay tuned. back to the point.  i knew that this weekend would be fun.  how could... Read More

my cup broke!!!!

On the morning of my birthday,  I woke up smiling.  The night before had been so lovely and I already felt the warmth  and love of those around me.  I slowly rolled out of bed, petted my girls, went about our morning routine and fixed a cup of coffee.  While sipping that gorgeous beverage, I opened my phone…and, facebook told me that 70 something people had written on my wall for my birthday.  I do realize that everyone feels like a rockstar on their birthday thanks to... Read More

happy birthday to me…

well, it’s my birthday.  12:12 a.m. on march 22, 1978.  34 years ago.  yep. 34. tonight, i had a few sweet friends come over and celebrate with me.  it was beautiful.  i loved looking around the room and watching people i love get to know  other people that i love.  i felt celebrated.  it was warming to the deepest parts of my heart. i wanted to do something to let them know how much i care for them.  so, this morning, i stopped at sweet 16th and picked up the cupcakes... Read More

you are worth it…

in my last post, i wrote about my frustration over how men in our society are acting.  at the least the single ones.  then, i thought about the list i put on that post. i have learned that, often, men hear “failure” when presented with things in their lives which need to be altered.  so, in order to be fair, i decided to look over that list and see why i put those things in it.  then, i realized that the list i put together is based on the things i work on inside... Read More

men…

just had to use this picture because it's pretty darn funny... since the beginning of time, there have been MEN and WOMEN.  i am a woman.  (just wanted to clear that up.)  as i am continuing to walk down the dating path, and more recently the internet dating path, i have figured out a couple of things that i want to share with y’all. however, i couldn’t state it any better than my father did about 6 months ago… men these days are sissies…i mean,... Read More

mr. all i do is text

i promised y’all a post about the most annoying internet dating experience to date.  (more might be to come….who knows?!) MR. ALL I DO IS TEXT there was a guy that peaked my interest.  he has a pretty awesome not-for-profit job working with kids.  his profile talks about looking for the “real deal…not wanting to date around…”  he states that he likes to go on roadtrips, eat like the locals, hold hands and laugh a lot.  also, he says he... Read More

internet dating…

just go ahead and get it out.  i know you are laughing.  i would too. however, it is true.  i am trying internet dating.  i have some very sweet friends who have met AMAZING men.  so, i decided to give it a shot.  i mean, i work with a bunch of women, and we don’t date our clients.  options are limited.  and, please don’t write me a comment about “have you looked at church?” or “what about your friends’ friends?”  those have... Read More

the breakfast sandwich…

food and wine has now told the world what nashville has known all along… sweet 16th has the best breakfast sandwiches in the country!!! (click here to go to the food and wine website).  granted, there are a number of other contenders as well.  however, we hold fast to the truth that  no other breakfast sandwich holds a candle to our east nashville gem. for those of you who have not ventured to our side of town….SHAME ON YOU!!!!  you need to rememdy that situaiton... Read More

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